Seven Parts, Four Hours

The numbers, staggering. The shame, widespread. The content, disturbing. The effects, unparalleled. The power of German Entrepreneur Fabian Thylmann’s purchase of multiple online porn sites at the same time has affected so many of our experiences and expectations of sexual intimacy. The Butterfly Effect is an illuminating and brilliant four hour podcast by Jon Ronson that explores the ripple effects of access to free porn … Continue reading Seven Parts, Four Hours

When do you show kindness in your relationship?

I’ve been reading and listening to the words of wisdom of couples therapist Esther Perel leading me to ask some difficult questions. When am I kind? Why am I kind? Do I wait until my partner is down and bummed out and then I’m ‘nicer’ than normal? Do I only show up with peace offerings to reconcile after a fight? Am I kind in the … Continue reading When do you show kindness in your relationship?